You can wait before introducing him to your people.Of course your family and BFFs will be dying to meet the new guy that has made you so happy. But there’s something to be said for waiting until you truly know how you feel before adding other people into the mix.” Before I get into taking things slowly, I want to address your fear that you are going to “mess things up.” My opinion is that is impossible. Those things are in your control, and seem like an improbability.As far as what you can’t control, (which is HER), don’t worry about it.What I first want to say to this man is how happy I am that you are doing what you are supposed to be doing: enjoying life and love!!
Right now, it’s still early, so feel free to stay in your love bubble.
You might find out he’s not The One sooner rather than later.
What sucks more – learning that this guy is definitely not right for you when you’re two months in, or after six months of coupled-up bliss?
You might be waiting to call someone your boyfriend without knowing they have zero interest in that label.
If you take things slow, you can take care of yourself and not get your hopes up. This goes for sleeping together, putting a label on it – any aspect of a new romance.
Each step will feel like it’s simply happening as it’s supposed to. Sometimes we’re more excited about the idea of someone than of who that person actually is.